Brenda Robertson

Brenda Ann Robertson (Gray)

Monday, November 19th, 1945 - Sunday, December 20th, 2020
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Ms. Brenda Robertson, was born in Randolph County on November 19, 1945 and was the daughter of the late James Carven Gray and Rosalee Holt Gray. She departed this life on December 20, 2020 from an extended illness.
Brenda was a graduate of Morningside High School and was a member of Statesville Covenant Cathedral. At the time of her death, she was retired from Iredell Statesville Schools as a teacher assistant.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her brothers, Randolph “June” Little, Ronald T. Little and William “Billy” Gray, nephews Brian Kevin Gray and William “Little Bill” Gray and a niece Leslie Dawn Gray.
She leaves to cherish the memory of her life, three daughters Maria (Robert) White, Andrea (Anthony) Darty of Statesville, Kimberly Alysia Blackwell of Rockwell, NC. One son, William (Cynthia) Blackwell of Charlotte, NC. Nine Grandchildren – Antonio Deshawn (Nicky) Gray, Ayanna Darty of Statesville, NC, Shateria Renek Blackwell, Kameron Blackwell, Candace, Cameron, Brandace Mayes, Jhakeya and James Sims of Charlotte, NC. One sister, Patricia Gray of Statesville, NC. One brother, James “Jimmi” Little. An adopted daughter, Chandra Harris. One aunt Amanda Brown of Salisbury, NC. Eight great grandchildren and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives, church family and dear friends.

The Loss of a Dear Mother
By LaJoyce Ann Brawley

The love of a mother never goes away,
It will be with you each and everyday
She might be absent from the body,
But knowing she is present with the Lord.
The closeness you share from her heart,
Her warm spirit will never part.

Ms. Brenda left a prayer legacy with all the intercessors that will never part.
She is dancing and singing with Mama Rose, Billy, and Kevin and still intercede for
her children Toni, Robert, Rennie, Cynt, Andrea, Kim, Yana, Deshawn, Pat and all her family, prayer partners and friends.
When you see blessings and things have been intercepted and the impossible
she’s interceding on our behalf.

Celebration of Life Services will be conducted Wednesday, December 30, 2020, at 11:00 a.m. at Rutledge and Bigham Funeral Home. Bishop Samuel Thomas will officiate.

Visit the Book of Memories for Brenda at Rutledge and Bigham Funeral Home is serving the Robertson Family.
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Karla Kincaid

Posted at 12:18pm
Mrs. Robertson was my 2nd grade teacher assistant & she was the very sweetest! I had just moved to STATESVILLE when entering Mrs. Ciffarelli’s class at Wayside. I was nervous, but I recall that Mrs. Robertson was SO sweet & made me feel right at home. I will always remember her gentle & loving spirit. I’m 32 years old & I will cherish her memory as long as I live. Prayers for all those loved ones missing her here on earth. ♥️

Gail White

Posted at 04:23pm
Deepest Sympathy to The Family
Praying peace and comfort as you grieve for your loved one. Brenda, was truly loved because of her gentle and kindhearted spirit.
Gail White

Sonia O Scott

Posted at 03:21pm
Prayers for the Gray and Robertson families on your loss of your beloved

Phyllis Rogers

Posted at 09:10am
Brenda and I worked in the same classroom at ADR one year and the same schools following that. She was always so wise and calm. I learned so much from her. She lived with such dignity. My condolences to her family.

Phyllis Rogers

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