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Pamela McWhorter

Pamela McWhorter

Saturday, November 16th, 1963 - Monday, November 2nd, 2020
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John 14:1 Do not let your heart be troubled , You believe in God; believe also in me.

Remembering the Life of
Mrs. Pamela Denise Parker McWhorter
Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure
You are loved beyond words, and missed beyond measure

Pamela Denise Parker McWhorter, 56, of Stony Point, died Monday, November 2, 2020 at her residence. She was born November 16,1963 in Davie County and was the daughter of Stanley & Connie Parker, Sr. and late Charles Morrison.

She was a graduate of Alexander Central High School, Taylorsville and Catawba Valley Community College, Hickory, NC. She knew she wanted to be a secretary from the age of five and fulfilled that dream through her job with the City of Statesville Water Resources Department as Office Manager, serving as Church Secretary for St. John Baptist Church, Statesville, & Third Creek Baptist Church, Stony Point, and serving as Corresponding Secretary for the Mountain & Catawba Missionary Baptist Association for over 25 years also served the Alexander County Union as Secretary and served on the Constitution Committee for the General Baptist State Convention. She recently received her certification as a Certified Church Administrator.

She was a very active member of Third Creek Baptist Church for most of her life serving as Church Secretary, Church Clerk, Usher, SS Teacher, VBS Teacher, Christian Education Director, Choir Member, and a member of Willful Praise. Pam loved to sing. Being a member of Willful Praise at her home church was always dear to her heart. After joining the discipleship of St. Paul Baptist Church, Charlotte, NC in June of 2014 she quickly became involved in Sunday School, Bible Study, and Women of Worth Ministry, and the Mass Choir, which was a dream of hers since the first time she heard them sing. She assisted with mission projects such as the Women’s Day Weekend, Clothing Closet and Food Bank. She recently became a part of Advance Carolina and was excited about the political change she was going to help with in the surrounding communities.

She loved to have fun; participate in Drama Ministry, host parties, sing and play with the Mighty Clouds of Third Creek. She started a Woman’s ministry called Sister to Sister. Desktop publishing and helping churches with their needs was a passion of hers. She bowled with several leagues over the years and enjoyed scrap booking and couponing. She was a die hard Dallas Cowboy fan since 1979. After traveling back and forth to Charlotte and attending a game she tried to become a Carolina Panther fan, but could not commit to the change.

She was preceded in death by her husband of twenty-three years John Richard McWhorter. She is survived by her two daughters Genesis Evon McWhorter of Germany, and India Symone McWhorter of Hickory; two sisters Sonya Parker of Stony Point and Ericka Morrison of Winston Salem; one brother Stanley Parker, Jr. (Caroline) of Taylorsville; several nieces and nephews, aunts, uncles and sisters-in-law, neighbors, the St. Paul Baptist Church Family and friends including special friends, Dr. Darryl and Josie McConnell, Rev. Dwayne and Fryn Harris and Dr. Greg Moss, Sr.
As long as life and memory last, we will remember you.


Visit the Book of Memories for Mrs. McWhorter at www.rutledgeandbigham.com.

There will be NO PUBLIC VISITATION (WAKE), unfortunately, with the COVID-19 Virus. We, at Rutledge and Bigham Funeral Home, along with other funeral homes across the country, have been issued a mandate to limit the number of family and/or friends at funeral services. YOU CAN ONLY ENTER THE FUNERAL WITH A FUNERAL PASS WHICH WILL BE GIVEN TO THE FAMILY.

GENERAL PUBLIC VIEWING WILL BE HELD ON Monday, November 9, 2020, beginning from 3:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. and resume Tuesday Morning, November 10, 2020 from 9:00 A.M. until the funeral home.

GO TO VIEW ONLINE STREAMING OF THE SERVICE...GO TO FACEBOOK TO Bernardeane's Page
AFTER THE SERVICE IS OVER YOU CAN VIEW THE ONLINE VIDEO BY CLICKING ON HER PICTURE ON OUR WEBSITE. GO TO The BOOK OF MEMORIES CLICK ON PHOTOS AND VIDEO. YOU WILL SEE A LINK TO FACEBOOK - THAT'S THE ONLINE VIDEO.
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Service Details

  • Service

    Tuesday, November 10th, 2020 | 1:00pm
    When
    Tuesday, November 10th, 2020 1:00pm
    Location
    Rutledge and Bigham Mortuary
    Address
    603 South Center Street
    STATESVILLE, NC 28677
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    Officiant
    Reverend Robert Scott
    Co-Celebrant
    Reverend Darryl McConnell
  • Interment

    Tuesday, November 10th, 2020 |
    When
    Tuesday, November 10th, 2020
    Location
    Third Creek Baptist Church
    Address
    285 Third Creek Rd
    STONY POINT, NC 28678
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ST. PAUL BAPTIST CHURCH MASS CHOIR

Posted at 01:17pm
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Mary Alice Norwood

Posted at 12:21pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the days to come.
Sis Pamela was such a wonderful lady. She was always greeted us with a beautiful
smile. Please know that we share in your sorrow. May we find comfort in knowing
that our loss is Heaven's gain.
Love Rev.Jimmie& Sis Mary Alice Norwood
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Cierra (McWhorter) Simmons

Posted at 10:48am
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Chuck Smith

Posted at 08:21am
I knew Pam as a friend and co-worker with Statesville. Pam was the ever professional with a light-hearted approach. She had a deep interest to do things right the first time. She was the mother hen to most of the Water Resources crew making sure all were properly care for and knew what was to be known. She will be sorely missed. Thoughts and prayers to her friends and family.

-Chuck Smith
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Love, Aaliyah-Rod-Tierra-Big Gabby

Posted at 07:35am
Gen, Our HONCH our rock we love you we are here for you and we wish you nothing but healing and love during this time. Prayers and Love for You all!
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